A single has to break out of his or her shell in order to meet new people. Staying in your comfort zone may prevent you from finding your perfect match. Unfortunately for gay, lesbian, and bisexual singles, however, intolerant groups can make opening up difficult. Luckily there are a number of safe ways to meet other gay and lesbian singles.

Have Your Friend Set You Up on a Date

If you're shy about asking random strangers on a date, you may want to try having your friend set you up on one. Your friend may be able to find a person who shares similar interests or has the same type of personality you're looking for in a partner. You may also be able to develop some type of connection before you actually go on a date together, making the date less awkward.

Try an Online Dating Service

If you would like to try online dating, there are several different options to consider. For instance, you may want to try meeting people through chat rooms. However, anybody can enter a gay chat room, so you may experience some negativity from insensitive lurkers. If you don't like chat rooms, consider looking through some online personal ads. These ads are available at websites like Love Access' website, www.loveaccess.com, which allow members to post descriptions of themselves as well as pictures. If you would like to contact someone who you find attractive, just instant message or email him or her.

Go Out

Go out to different events or different parties with friends. These types of events allow you to meet new people as well as people who may share similar interests. If you don't meet someone you're interested in dating, at least you're getting out and getting to know people. Shy men and women may become more comfortable and socialable.

Often times bars and clubs specifically serve a gay, lesbian, bisexual or transexual clientele while others often host singles events for these groups on a weekly basis. Visiting these clubs and events allows young singles to come together and mingle in a safe, comfortable environment.

Visit Gay.com for more information. This website provides advice and offers you the opportunity to search for other singles.